June 21, 2021
Over the past few months, I’ve been faced with lots of big life changing decisions and opportunities. I think lots of people might be going through this as the world begins to open up and we continue to get back to our lives as “normal” again. Something my friend said to me a while ago really stuck with me and it’s what has been getting me through all of this uncertainty. She said we should focus on living in the questions rather than focusing on having all of the answers all the time. Especially living through your early twenties (or maybe not, maybe its just living as an adult), there are so many things changing and new opportunities and expectations being put on us all the time. So rather than always focusing on making every decision as they come up, I have been trying to focus on letting these things resolve themselves in time. With this, I carry with me the belief that things will work themselves out as they come, and so far, this has really served me well. By trusting the universe to bring what I need to me, I am not forcing anything, and instead am able to accept what comes as meant to be. In this way, I know that everything that works out or doesn’t work out is what is best, rather than feeling bad when certain things don’t go through.
With that, I’ll leave you with a nice affirmation that I’ve been repeating to myself lately. As things change and we get back to living our busy lives, remember to give the universe some credit, and know that everything that is meant for you will come exactly when it needs to.
My heart is at ease knowing that what is meant for me will never miss me and what misses me was never meant for me.
Happy summer solstice loves!
Take care till next time,